I think a lot of people overlook this.
It’s true that I will always take care of My girl, and that she in turn takes care of Me. I have said many times that I love the song lyric, “she is My heart, and I am her armor.”
However, I also have faith that My girl is strong enough that, should something every happen to Me, she is strong enough to survive without Me. I know that she would be upset, but she would move on and succeed at life still.
I see people every day saying things like, “I can’t function without you.” or, “With you gone, nothing matters.”
Although I understand the sentiment that they are trying to convey, those phrases and others like them, can actually be quite intimidating to your partner.
A Dominant does indeed get a rush from you wanting His protection, guidance, and firm hand.
However, He also wants to know that you “can” stand on your own should the need arise. Without the knowledge, instead of “thinking of you” He will “worry about you”.
I want to think about My girl, with a smile on My face, wondering what she is up to.
I am thankful that My girl is as strong as she is. I may be her rock, but she is My world.
if i had one hero growing up…it was him!
I miss her with all of my heart. She makes living life easy. She brings me down to earth. I love you